Interesting it is...
The very act of scheduling our days is representative of the human's innate struggle for control over his or her own destiny, in the face of all that nature opposes, in the face of futility.
Scheduling our time and thinking that things will go our way is a very human thing to do, and is a noble, albeit misguided, endeavour indeed.
On a smaller scale, it symbolizes humanities larger struggle for control and mastery of ourselves and our fates against the greater cosmos and even death itself, things beyond control.
I think how much you schedule and how much you stick to your schedule, how hard you actually work for those things you purport to desire, really says a lot about who you are and who you are becoming.
Those who keep their plans and work hard towards them, adapting as changes make their elusive and heinous presences known, are the ones who will triumph against the still-lurking catastrophes of the dark.
It is easy to think that relaxing and not being so strict with yourself is what you are "supposed to do", but there is no such thing.
There is what you "want to do", what "you need to do", and what "you need to do to get what you want".
Trading the harder-to-reach desires for cheap, bastardized Kentucky Fried chicken pick-me-up desires is a horrendous idea, especially on a regular basis.
Habitually going for the unhealthy mental and personal nourishment will hinder your advancements in this world and as a human being.
Self-analysis, self-progression, and self-discipline are very important things to grasp and initiate in regularly.
They help you hone your skills and talents, your personality, and your desire and ability to create new things and get new talents.
Hmm..
If I had to break down the important aspects of your public and private life I would say..
Private:
Self-study,
Extending your hobbies and talents,
Honing your skills,
Creating media and sharing knowledge,
Caring for your family, friends, society, the world
Consuming media that challenges you and stimulates your mind
Exercising,
Experiencing the beautiful world we live in: the internet isn't the be-all end-all
Making sure your wife and children are loved and know it,
(not with gifts per se, but by spending time with them and being affectionate)
(They are not a "chore", their value to you and relationship with you are have as much value as what you achieve in this life, for they too define who you are.)
The one's you love and the things you love define who you are as much as the things you do and the things you don't.
The way you care for them, the way you think of them and act upon those thoughts, the very way that you grow or reduce your relationship with them, all of these are precious and should be treasured for what they are.
You hold a special privilege and place in their hearts and lives, and their love for you should be matched by your kindness and love in kind.
Professional:
Never do something that is against your better judgement or morals
Don't create enemies, this is a somewhat big world, but it get's smaller when $ and hate is involved
Seek a career that will help you develop as a master of your trade, one that will challenge you and make you uncomfortable with the amount of responsibility that you will have: this will help you grow.
(Don't do this if you cannot handle it yet, that will end regrettably)
Network and make connections, but be professional
(Again, the world may be big but the niches you find will be interconnected, and the general opinion of you is extremely important.)
Speaking of which, your appearance is of utmost importance
Look sharp, confident, and bold: and act accordingly too!
Need I say it? Don't date a coworker, it is not recommended..
Don't let yourself become complacent or stagnant, always look for better opportunities and ways to improve your lot and stake.
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Hmmm...
I feel like all above really has no place on my blog, but whatevs...
I felt like writing that anyway :)
Interestingly, since I recently have been thinking so much about inter-cultural exchanges and correspondences I have been intrigued by certain choices of words I use in this blog, and find myself wondering if any foreigners who read this will have trouble if English is their second or third language?
For instance, I said "whatevs" instead of "whatever", which is slang I suppose.
And I earlier used regrettably in a way I've myself never seen it before used.
Also, I keep using contractions, and lots and lots of commas.
As well as emphasis on "lots" by repeating it twice.
English is a very explicit language, unlike Japanese or Chinese.
It means that there is a lot of information in our sentences, but also a lot of power.
But even with this detail, interpretations and meanings can be lost even between two English speakers.
Lol, Ironic really.
Anyway, this isn't really much of a blog post, since I haven't written about myself.
More of a "I should post something, so I will write about whatever comes to mind..."
Okay,
I will, but for sanity's sake I will make a new post for it so this one doesn't get overtly large.
Thanks for reading! :)
Sincere via,
~James
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